How to Stay Positive in the New Economy

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Happy Children

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I made the mistake of reading a book called Aftershock over Christmas Break. [Here's a non-affiliate link to the Aftershock Economy web page.] The reason it was a mistake? If you believe what’s in the book (general theme: US Economy is in a world of hurt and it’s going to get a lot worse), as I pretty much do, then it has a tendency to ruin your good mood.

Here’s the thing: the Macroeconomic doom and gloom doesn’t have to impact your Microeconomic world. Even if you’re chasing the next thing – new clients, new product launches, new job, new relationships – you don’t have to let negativity impact where you are headed.

Here are 5 tips that might help you stay positive in the new economy.

1. Have a friend act as your coach

I’ll come clean on this one: I have a friend who pulled me aside and asked “Dave, why so negative?” So it was a bad weekend – put it aside and move on.

The thing here is that you need someone who will give you a swift kick and see you how the rest of the world sees you. This is vital.

2. Work on lifting others up

Trite – but can you say nice things publicly about other people? Can you visit other people’s blogs and comment on them? Can you Tweet about someone, or give them a Like on Facebook?

3. Remember this: “Your Net Worth is Not Your Self-Worth”

Really easy to calculate your net worth these days. And really easy to let it get you down, too. Don’t fall prey to adding dollar signs in front of your own value.

4. Empathy is your friend, too

Before you admonish the world for being out to get you, consider the other side of the coin: that person who sent a quick email saying “thanks but no thanks” may be so overwhelmed that she can’t get to everything in her in box. The guy who you can’t spend more than two seconds on the phone with may be trying to save his own job. The person behind the counter isn’t being paid all that much and you’re just another surly customer to them.

5. Laugh it off

Try to seek out people who will give you a belly laugh. Put on an episode of some goofy comedy, or pull out the DVD of a movie that you can’t help but laugh at. (“Airplane!” works for me.) Leave a nutty voice mail for one of your friends at an hour that you know they won’t hear it.

I’m not an expert on how to stay positive in the new economy. But I’m getting better at it, so whether we’re headed into financial oblivion or another age of glorious triple-digit returns on everyone’s mutual funds, I’m prepared to stay positive.

 

Breaking News: Klout Scores Plummet

Klout, the online site that calls itself “the standard for influence,” has seen its users’ scores plummet overnight…

…with this reporter seeing his drop from 63 on a 100-point scale to 36.

Here’s a screenshot:

Klout

Klout Score, December 3

What’s eerie about the latest Klout score changes are that they happen on a Saturday – when lots of social media users are supposed to be doing other things as opposed to working – and that they happened a day after Klout continued to explain changes on its own blog. (Here’s a link to the Klout blog.)

Knowing that some of those who influence me have left Klout, and others have never used the site, wondering if the latest changes to its algorithm might mark the beginning of a bigger backlash?

Update: As of 10:17 a.m., my Klout score has returned to 63.

No evidence of it having dropped, and no explanation on the Klout.com blog.

Measuring Influence With Bacon

Social Media and Bacon Collide for Another Important List: The Bacon Index.

Bacon

Thanks, cookbookman17 on flickr; photo used with CC license

Another day, another list.

First there was this kerfuffle about the website Klout and its digital privacy – now it’s a discussion of just who is “Influential” on Twitter, with the launch of a tool called PeekYou. (That’s a link to the Forbes article about PeekYou, and the Digital Influencers they rank.)

PeekYou, Forbes, even Klout, are missing the point.

Being influential AT social media, or IN social media or even ABOUT social media does no one any good at all – unless there’s a point to this influence.

As a for instance, Gary Vaynerchuk is awesome, he’s passionate, and he’s the only one allowed to say “Crushing It.” (Because he IS Crushing It.)

But his influence in social media stems from the fact that he developed deep domain expertise in wine – investing well above the required 10,000 hours to know his stuff. (10,000 hours being Malcolm Gladwell’s number – that’s how much time you need to invest in a subject to truly have expertise.)

The point to Gary’s influence? Sell more books, sell more wine. Get speaking gigs. Buy the New York Jets someday.

Wine Influence > Digital Influence > Global Influence. That was the progression for Gary. What’s your progression?

This Brings Us to the Question: Who Is Most Influential About Bacon?

Does it matter?

That. Is. The. Point.

Off the top, there are guys who we know who are involved in cookbooks about Bacon. (Gary Unger.) There are Master Sommeliers who can tell you which wine to drink with bacon. (Rick Bakas.) There is even a company that can sell you the rights to use its copyrighted recipe for the Bacon Explosion.

We have to start this off with a binary question:

Do you care about bacon?

If the answer is no, it doesn’t quite matter who is the most influential about this subject – as you are officially not interested.

There Is No OFFICIAL Bacon Index. And There Shouldn’t Be a Social Media Index.

“Influence” is one of the most peddled buzzwords of 2011 – and it shouldn’t be. Just like “community” and “social media.”

Lists will come and go: today’s influencers are tomorrow’s front-line employees who need to get approval to tweet. Today’s entrepreneurial wunderkinds will move up or move on. Some of the most real, genuine, likable people on the planet – a couple of whom who are on the list, like Chris Brogan and Scott Stratten – are unknowns to 99% of the population – and that population might be struggling with finding the next client, getting the next gig, paying the next bill.

They may be hungry for some bacon – or they may be an Orthodox Jew who refuses to go near the stuff.

Human. Connections.

That’s ALL that counts. Who are you? What can I do for you? How can I help you? What makes you tick?

Go ahead: make a list of your OWN influencers. Use it, or toss it aside.

Even better, make a list of those 50 people – bacon lovers or not – you are connected with and have yet to meet in real life. Then make them your targets for 2012.

That’s Your Bacon Index.

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